Like most good things in life, memory is something we take for granted—until we start to lose it. And watching memories slip away from someone you love is harder still. Since my wife’s Alzheimer’s diagnosis, her memory has been evaporating. I can’t reverse the losses, but I’ve decided to do the next best thing. I’m going to keep a chronicle of this journey. Here, in this space, I want to remember the forgetting.
(Evelyn and Mark posed June 22, 2024, the date of their 51st wedding anniversary.)
I’m engaged with Evelyn every day in one way or another. And yet in many ways, I’m living my life without her. It’s a surreal valley, and I’m trying not to stumble.