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A new reader prompted reflection on where I am in this journey
His email reminded me of fears and frustrations I encountered when I was where he is today. It’s good for me to think about how I’m doing now compared to then.
Finish Line Faith, 3: Learning how to tap the superpower within
Have you ever asked yourself where you can find the strength to deal with your difficulties? In 2 Timothy 1:6-7, Paul gives the answer.
My caregiving story: rewards, mistakes, guilt, and questions
Caregiving is a conundrum. On the one hand, it is an honorable opportunity for its own sake and with its own rewards, while the other hand is often mired in guilt and self-loathing that comes from not doing enough, or doing too much of what we shouldn’t.
Out of the house, out of ourselves, receiving as much as we gave
We discovered new meaning in advice we’ve heard for years: “It is more blessed to give than to receive.”
Finish Line Faith 2: A backward look can inspire forward motion
Young Timothy was feeling overwhelmed by the situation in Ephesus. Paul urged him to find strength by remembering his heritage.
Meditation on a snowy morning: Coziness brings some comfort
Was I anticipating coziness in an effort to experience what Evelyn and I enjoyed when she was here?
Finish Line Faith, 1: What to do when you feel like giving in
In a new series from a new book, Matt Proctor looks at 2 Timothy to examine the apostle Paul’s instructions there on how to go on when you feel like giving in.
Pondering a year just past, wondering about the months to come
I certainly wouldn’t have predicted all that 2024 contained. So I’ll not hazard many guesses about what we'll see in 2025.
Christmas Is for You: God’s provision may not look the way we’d choose
Anguish and agony have existed throughout the centuries. God sees and cares about it all, but seldom does he suspend the natural laws of the universe to make things go our way.
‘Different’ has become our new normal, so Christmas is different too
Christmas is different this year—again! But there was nothing typical about the first Christmas, either.
Christmas Is for You: A story full of searching and surprises
We know the story, but thinking carefully about it again may show us some surprises.
My challenge: Learning to walk through the valley of in-between
I’m engaged with Evelyn every day in one way or another. And yet in many ways, I’m living my life without her. It’s a surreal valley, and I’m trying not to stumble.
Christmas Is for You: Joyful, patient, faithful—he was all three
Joyful, patient, and faithful: Three qualities and an aged saint who had them all.
A ‘Christmas Card’ to help me deal with the paradox inside me
My interactions with others give me energy. My tears provide release. I’ve decided it’s a healthy combination.
Christmas Is for You: These two learned about God and his promises
Their remarkable story gives us faith that God’s promises are for us, too!
Facing the holidays, reflecting on the year we decided to go public
Three years ago, when we first announced our situation, I wouldn’t have dreamed what it would look like today.
Christmas Is for You: The promise it offers is for caregivers, too
His coming offers the promise of hope to everyone who will obey him, even those who feel Christmas is for someone else.
Of all my many reasons to be thankful, these people top the list
This Thanksgiving I’m choosing to concentrate on the people—so many people—encouraging me on every step of the journey.
Embracing Lament: We’re not too old for what all of us need most: hope
More than those in any generation, in spite of our unexpected burdens, we should have hope. All our experience with God tells us he will win in the end.
‘She’s still in there.’ We love it. But we miss everything lost
A visit with old friends was wonderful. But it pointed out to me the diabolical dilemma of loving someone with Alzheimer’s. She’s there, but in many ways she’s gone.