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What probably would have been and what possibly could someday be
Sometimes I wonder what I’d be thinking and feeling and doing if our lives hadn’t been invaded by illness.
Monday Meditation: His Final Days, Part 5: A surprising story
If I were concocting a story about a new savior of the world, this is not at all how I would have written it.
Two years later, the string of change just keeps getting longer
As the list of difficult or unseemly duties lengthens, my sadness is almost dulled. I feel myself getting weary.
Monday Meditation: His Final Days, Part 4: A shocking denial
Isn’t it encouraging to believe God has a mission for each of us, despite how often we don’t live up to our good intentions?
Pondering the meaning and mystery of who she was and who she is
What is really changing in the deterioration happening before our eyes? And what will never change? A thoughtful question led me to ponder issues beyond what I’m seeing today.
Monday meditation: His Final Days, Part 3: A selfish betrayal
Why did Judas betray Jesus? And why do we insist on taking actions to prod God to do things our way?
Words necessary, difficult, and becoming common: ‘I need your help’
Asking for help is humbling. But at two different times last week, I had absolutely no other choice.
Monday Meditation: His Final Days, Part 2: A meal to remember
Like the disciples, we were experiencing life much as we expected until everything changed in the space of a very short time.
Embracing anger: one strategy for protecting me from sadness
A friend has helped me think afresh about anger. I’m going to claim it, use it, unleash it against the mess we’re in.
Monday Meditation: His Final Days, Part 1: An example of service
They were as shocked to see his humble service as we may be by the necessity that we do something similar.
Privilege or burden or both? How to know I’m feeling right about this
I’ve written about the privilege and the burden of caregiving. Now I’m thinking about how to experience the former more than the latter.
Monday Meditation: ‘Tell Me a Story,’ Part 6: Getting what I deserve
We’ve used up all the physical strength and spiritual sustenance afforded to us yesterday. We need resources just to get through today.
What’s next for us? Looking to God for the answers I need most
I’ve been wrestling with whether or when and where Evelyn should move to a care community. Will God give me the answers through the advice of my friends?
Monday Meditation: ‘Tell Me a Story,’ Part 5: Admitting my lack
Any of us might have pride fed by our self-derision of others. Today’s story helps us resist the tendency.
Amid today’s unprecedented criticism, I thank God for the church!
We have a wonderful support network, and I realize most of it stems from one source: the church. Despite the church’s many flaws, I thank God for the church!
Monday Meditation: ‘Tell Me a Story,’ Part 4: Continuing to pray
We can identify with the suffering of this widow, and that makes her example all the more compelling.
Two lists with insight into how I’m actually coping right now
This week I’ve gathered five small subjects, grouped into two lists. Each one gives some insight into how we’re doing in January 2024.
‘Tell Me a Story,’ Part 3: Recognizing God’s presence and love
Let’s focus on just one aspect of just one character in this, perhaps the most famous of the stories Jesus told. What might we conclude about the older brother’s consistent service?
All’s well that ends well enough: a record of this week’s surprises
Tuesday was a LONG day! Things are looking better on Wednesday.
Monday meditation: ‘Tell Me a Story,’ Part 2: Anticipating the harvest
For those who are a part of the kingdom, the harvest is a good thing, something to look forward to; an occasion of joy, not fear.