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Monday meditation: We’re not as powerless as we sometimes feel
In this moment, Joseph had all the power. And he used it for God. God has given us power, too, to cope this week in ways that please him.
Loneliness, Part 2: ‘Filled with a sense of irreplaceable loss’
My friend gave me a word better than “lonely” to describe what both of us are feeling.
Monday meditation: An unknown future calls us to trust an eternal God
Perhaps his trip to Egypt was the world’s first “unchosen journey.”
Shared story: I can honestly say I’ve been blessed through it all
First my wife and today my dad. I never would have expected these caregiving duties—or the blessings that came because of them.
A caregiver’s loneliness is about more than being alone, Part 1
“The evenings are long, and I can feel so lonely.” I realize I share his experience, but for a completely different reason.
Monday meditation: Remembering the love you first felt many years ago
The person you’re caring for has changed so much that you may have forgotten what attracted you to them the first time.
Not all, but not nothing: one caregiver’s quest for balance
The caregiver cannot maintain his former life completely. But he cannot and should not give it all up. How does he find balance between the two extremes?
Monday meditation: He gave up comfort and certainty for obedience
Abram’s life turned out as he never imagined it, just as ours has. But we can’t imagine what he may do with our submission to what he’s given us today.
Why ‘Monday Meditations’? Fruit from a long-term relationship
Today I’m celebrating new fruit from a relationship that began many years ago.
Monday meditation: Choosing to concentrate on all God has given
Satan points us to our problems, but God comes beside us with comfort and provision and strength for each new step.
Shared story: We are coping, but this disease does not pause or stop
The story of how our life has changed, beginning with a senseless auto accident in 2014.
Finding ‘peace and poise’ amid many reminders that the past is past
“There are two words we don’t honor enough. One is ‘over’ and the other is ‘next.’”
Shared story: My journey as a long-distance caregiver, Part 3
After what I’ll honestly call a very difficult year, I can say, I’m doing great. But the hope we celebrated at Christmas means more than ever.
One caregiver considers another new year: resignation and hope
“Oh what a foretaste of glory divine.” This year I’ll settle for the foretaste while nurturing hope for glory someday.
Welcome, old friend! We’re glad you’re here, even with the changes
We’re glad to see her again, but I’ve decided I just can’t give Christmas all she may want from me. And that’s OK.
Trying to remember a friend’s simple advice: ‘Live your life!’
“Do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” I’m trying, I’m really trying.
At Christmas, too: Everything’s the same, and everything’s different
Through the decades, we stay the same, but our circumstances change. We approach life as we always have, even though life has become so different. Christmas is the perfect example of this.
Only slowly am I learning to embrace these days as privilege
I have lived a privileged life . . . even now. Especially now. That’s what I’m coming to realize.
Thinking about thanks with a gallery of reasons I’m grateful
Despite the difficulties in our days, here’s a gallery—just in time for Thanksgiving—to help me express a few ways I’m thankful.
Since we are our memory, what does this mean for her—and for me?
“We ARE our memory,” a friend said to me. And this adds another layer of sadness—and resolve—as I watch my wife’s memory fade and falter.