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Through the decades, our life has been filled with love notes
All of our life he wrote me love notes. And now I’m writing them to him.
After 30 years of togetherness, now we’re living one day at a time
Gradual cognitive decline followed by critical weakness in his body led to our separation after decades of being together.
Shared story: How caregiving has affirmed for me a simple truth
“Your time is valuable. Share it!” Advice I wouldn’t have expected to read. Truth I’ve discovered again and again—especially now that I’m a caregiver.
Shared story: The important lessons I put into practice too slowly
To live well with a dementia sufferer, you must enter their world. This is the main, but not the only, lesson I learned but actually used too slowly.
Handling the new while grieving the loss of the old: It’s not easy
Capitalizing on the present while admitting and grieving the loss of the past is the challenge for everyone loving a person with a debilitating disease.
Shared story: Reflecting, praying, hoping at the start of a new year
As a daughter anticipates Yom Kippur, she thinks about how she has served her mother, wondering about the year to come.
Shared story: Joy from memories of who she was, and who she had become
The mother I had as a child no longer resembled the person she had become. But I loved her all the same, clear through the difficult days till the very end.
Shared story: We promised she would always know she was loved
Notes from a 10-year unchosen journey by a family committed to keeping their promise to their dad
Shared story: There is life after caregiving! Part two: Moving on
“Though I never expected to be alone at this age or for this long, God has truly led me to a new, different, and surprisingly fulfilling life.”
Shared story: There is life after caregiving! Part one: Our journey
Phyllis Girdwood reflects on what it meant to care for her husband who was dying with cancer—and how she’s learning to cope in the years since his passing.
Shared story: I can honestly say I’ve been blessed through it all
First my wife and today my dad. I never would have expected these caregiving duties—or the blessings that came because of them.
Shared story: We are coping, but this disease does not pause or stop
The story of how our life has changed, beginning with a senseless auto accident in 2014.
Shared story: My journey as a long-distance caregiver, Part 3
After what I’ll honestly call a very difficult year, I can say, I’m doing great. But the hope we celebrated at Christmas means more than ever.
Trying to remember a friend’s simple advice: ‘Live your life!’
“Do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” I’m trying, I’m really trying.
Shared Story: ‘I wouldn’t change a thing. But this was hard.’
Going through this makes us stronger. We don’t like it, but in retrospect we can say, “OK, God, you’ve humbled me. You’ve made me a better person.”
Shared story: I’m focusing on enjoying each day with my husband
Though we have hard days and life is like a yo-yo right now, I am thankful for a God who listens and comes to help me through the rough spots.
Shared story: ‘I pray, but I have many questions about prayer’
I have a confession. Even though I’ve been doing ministry for 50 years and have been a believer for 55 years or so, I still have more questions about prayer than I have answers.
Shared story: I’m determined to find the joy in each new day
In our house, we are determined to take just one day at a time, relying on God, and not to jump into the future and steal the joy God is giving us today.
The grief, the challenge, and ultimately the blessing of our journey
Our journey began in 2005, and the years since then have been filled with surprises, challenges, grief—and blessings. Many blessings.
Shared story: 1 Corinthians 13 paraphrased especially for caregivers
No matter how I sacrifice or what I know, love is the key that gives caregiving its power.