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Monday Meditation: New Beginnings, Part three: The body thrives
We can identify with the generosity reported in this passage because we’re still seeing it in the church today.
A caregiver’s plea for help: ‘I feel bad about feeling bad!’
A reader asked for advice, and that’s not what this blog is about. But maybe some stories from my experience will help him.
Monday Meditation: New Beginnings, Part two: It’s all about Jesus
The passage has just one message, and it is a truth for every person in any situation.
‘Be the husband.’ What did I think that advice really means?
You must protect your relationship so you can “be the husband” they told me. I’m still working to decide and discover what that means.
Monday Meditation: New Beginnings, Part one: The Spirit comes
Even with many legitimate criticisms and concerns for the church today, we read today’s passage and see that the church came from God.
Making the best decisions will likely continue to be a challenge
I thought the pressure of making difficult decisions would end with Evelyn living in residential care. Saturday morning I realized that end won’t likely be anytime soon.
Monday Meditation: He’s Alive! Part 6: Waiting was what they needed
They could have left to pursue their own devices. But instead they gathered and prayed and watched and waited. And in their wait, they set an example for each of us.
An acrostic to help me remember six goals for a life on purpose
The list helps me keep from living my life haphazardly. I don’t accomplish every goal every day, but these are a good checklist for every week.
Monday Meditation: He’s Alive! Part 5: He served a simple meal
This account of breakfast with Jesus is one of the most compelling in Scripture. Let’s think about the simple meal Jesus himself fixed for his amazed disciples.
My first dinner guests at home alone: enjoyable, but different
I’m living alone, and I’ve decided to cope with that by not always staying alone. So I invited three couples for dinner. Like everything else in my life now, it felt odd, a strange mix of the familiar with the all-new.
Monday Meditation: He’s Alive! Part 4: He needed to be convinced
We often hear “doubting Thomas” said with a sneer, as if it’s wrong to think twice before deciding to believe something fantastic. But maybe we need to give Thomas a break.
After 30 years of togetherness, now we’re living one day at a time
Gradual cognitive decline followed by critical weakness in his body led to our separation after decades of being together.
I’m finally admitting that ‘Mark and Evelyn’ doesn’t describe reality
This year I signed Easter cards with my name alone. I’m finally ready to admit that our reality has changed.
Monday Meditation: He’s Alive! Part 3: They needed his peace
We can imagine the words meant more to the disciples that day than ever before. They had likely never felt less at peace.
One week after our big transition: I’m hoping the shadow has passed
I can honestly report, “We are doing fine.” This is true for several reasons.
Monday Meditation: He’s Alive! Part 2: They couldn’t see who he was
I wonder how often God has shown up in my life and I haven’t noticed.
Too soon? Too late? Right? Wrong? I have made a difficult decision
Yesterday I moved Evelyn into a residential memory care facility. I’m hoping I remain convinced that was the right decision.
Monday Meditation: He’s Alive! Part 1: They did not understand
Long after the hoorays and hallelujahs and happiness of Easter, it’s good for us to ponder the resurrection.
I have a full glass, barely holding all I’ve had to pour into it
“Every time you say ‘yes’ to one thing, you must say ‘no’ to something else.”
Monday meditation: His final days, Part 6: He identifies with us
Jesus, God himself made flesh, came to earth not just to speak or heal or surprise. He came to suffer. That means something to us caregivers.