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Shared story: How caregiving has affirmed for me a simple truth
“Your time is valuable. Share it!” Advice I wouldn’t have expected to read. Truth I’ve discovered again and again—especially now that I’m a caregiver.
We knew the season for sheltering fragile life wasn’t far away
Rereading a post from one year ago reminds me the cycle continues and the circle won’t end.
Monday meditation: Questions for anyone afraid they’re about to sink
“Thank you, Lord, for staying with us through each storm, even when we wonder if it will overwhelm us.”
Perspective comes from noting the blessings. So I’ll jot a few here
I call this “My Chronicle,” sort of a diary recording the steps on our journey. And this week I feel I must mention that many of them are quite pleasant.
Monday meditation: What he thought was his all, was really only a start
He was pretty satisfied with himself, with all he had done, and all he had avoided doing. But he hadn’t given God his heart, and I wonder: Have I?
No matter their age, it’s a privilege to partner on the journey
Listen with me to the interactions between a young parent and her child, and see if you’re hearing the same phrases today.
Monday meditation: How good to believe he loves ALL the children!
Children everywhere are suffering, and Jesus cares. He cares not only about them but also about the adults in our care becoming more childlike month by month.
Even when it comes in small doses, satisfaction is something to savor
I’ve been thinking about happiness and contentment and satisfaction. And I can report that the last goal, although not always automatic, is the easiest to achieve.
Monday meditation: Just concentrate on today’s decisions—and blessings
The second in a series of devotions for October. “Here’s What Jesus Does.” He reminds us of God’s care.
Happiness? Contentment? Satisfaction? Which should I decide to seek?
She was peaceful, gracious, encouraging, and always, always positive. I didn’t understand her secret till after she died.
Monday meditation: Jesus cares about the burden we’re carrying
Here’s hope for caregivers who feel oppressed—and a challenge for those who love them.
Shared story: The important lessons I put into practice too slowly
To live well with a dementia sufferer, you must enter their world. This is the main, but not the only, lesson I learned but actually used too slowly.
Handling the new while grieving the loss of the old: It’s not easy
Capitalizing on the present while admitting and grieving the loss of the past is the challenge for everyone loving a person with a debilitating disease.
Monday meditation: He patiently sees and understands and satisfies
Look closely and you’ll find encouragement for caregivers in this well-known account of Jesus’ conversation with a Samaritan woman.
Shared story: Reflecting, praying, hoping at the start of a new year
As a daughter anticipates Yom Kippur, she thinks about how she has served her mother, wondering about the year to come.
I need to hear what I believe the doctors are really saying
No one is shuffling Evelyn into a corner to die. But her compassionate doctors are seeking the best quality of life we can have now.
Monday meditation: Listening in on a conversation between teachers
It’s good for us to read this story again, to wonder at its depth as well as its simplicity, and to think what it means for ourselves as well as those in our care.
Reflections on our blessings from a week that was full, very full!
Some caregivers are isolated and alone. Some Alzheimer’s patients are trapped at home. But at this stage of our journey, our lives are as full as we can bear, and I’m very grateful.
Monday Meditation: How do I feel about his whole night of prayer?
Maybe I’ve never prayed so long because I never faced a decision as large as the one Jesus was anticipating.
What I’m deciding these days: Blunted blessings are still blessings!
The blessings showered on us are all welcome—even though so many are shadowed by the unpleasant difficulties of this season.